The Principle of Feminine Openness in Love and Union
Kiare: And this is, you know, it’s an abandonment card, this eight of pentacles reversed. But, it’s… it’s a little interesting, the way it’s coming up, because this is actually a card that is depicting and expressing more the feminine rejecting the masculine. The feminine closing up, the feminine pulling back, withdrawing. And this has been coming up a lot lately, in my little corner of feminine counterparts, this principle of opening and receiving the masculine, like remaining receptive as a state of being, as like a constant, 24/7 state of feminine embodiment, and not as something that’s conditional on him doing or saying the right thing.
Because the tendency in a feminine being who has experienced torment in the matrix system around men and the masculine and love, where it genuinely was not safe to be open with men, or she was open and then she got stabbed in the heart, right? She learned, I have to close up, I have to armor myself, I have to shield myself, I have to protect myself. It’s not safe for me to be open around the masculine. But the truth is in love and life, that her openness to him metaphysically, ontologically, that’s an essential part of her being. Like, openness as a feminine being with men and the masculine, is how I need to live to be happy. That’s a state of ecstatic bliss and joy for me, my openness, that’s who I am. And protection remains… like it really has to be anchored in God and Christ to truly be, remain protected, in a state of full openness.
And this is something I would discuss with a lot of nuance. Cause also, depending on women’s programming, like some of us were hyper-open, some of us just merged, some of us had no boundaries. And then there’s the flip side. So there’s both sides of it, right? The hyper- and the hypo-. But when this is fully healed in us, we remain open in our heart and our womb 24/7, and then we still have sovereignty. We still have standards for what we receive and what we accept, but we never actually need to close our self off to remain in that sovereignty and that standard.
But there’s this association of like, I maintain my sovereignty, I keep myself protected, I maintain my standards by closing up… which is the issue. Because when we’re closed, he can’t feel us, he can’t feel our heart, he can’t feel our eros, and those are the medicine. Now, can there be a bunch of other stuff going on? Yes. Can there be more, like, patterns and programs and wounds that won’t be shifted just by remaining open? Yes. But, it’s a fundamental state of being for us. And it honestly feels a thousand times better to stay open through the conflict, and the confusion, and the miscommunication, and the betrayal. And continue to recenter in God, and alchemize, and shift, and clear what needs to be cleared… and still remain open. That feels a thousand times better than actually closing off.
And it’s also a little bit of this theme of light feminine versus dark feminine, right? How much am I in my light, in my innocence, and how much am I in my dark, in my power. You can be fully in your dark, fully in your sovereignty, and still be energetically open to his penetration, to his giving.
if you’ve ever wondered what we actually talk about in my God-led union tarot readings (heresy, i know lol)… here is your chance to eavesdrop on one!
i did a lovely reading with a client the other week where one of the cards pulled us into the codes of remaining open energetically as the feminine, with alllll the nuance (audio shared with her permission).
this is a topic i’ve been directed by God to speak on at least five separate times over the last month in private sessions and talks with women at different points on the hierogamy path.
there seems to be a strong current of initiation around this in the feminine counterpart field lately… a nudge for the very first time into the waters of organic receptivity in some, and a push into even greater depths for others.
remaining open as the feminine is an embodied state of being that is for us first and foremost… and with God, it can become a state of fully sovereign peace and joy, regardless of what is happening in our love lives. expanding our capacity to embody this continually with men and the masculine is a process, but one that is well worth the effort.
if you are dealing with amplified challenges and contractions around your embodied openness in love during this eclipse season, the Father may guide you into a hierogamic union reading with me for support.
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our goal is always to anchor into what the Lord has to say about your personal union path, and address specific blocks and opposition to your destiny of ecstatically blissful Kingdom love… transforming doubt and confusion into clarity and trust. we often combine these insights with inner healing and deliverance to directly alchemize the wounds, programs, and warfare that God reveals to us.
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